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Originally Posted by CTinline-six
Stop being so nice.
The "good getting to know you as well, good luck in your search" bullshit is something a nice guy would say.
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It's not only nice. More importantly, it's honest. I
do enjoy getting to know someone, if they're a good conversation partner and we have some things in common to talk about. If it turns out that we don't work as a romantic couple, I've lost nothing. I'm not hurt by it and I don't need the other person to hurt either. Inflicting pain on the way out accomplishes nothing, in my view of the world.
Get yourself to a point where it doesn't hurt if it doesn't work out, and the whole "eye for an eye" attitude will vanish.