This thread is really interesting, not least of all for the fact that it spotlights how "having your shit together" is hugely a matter of perspective.
As a kid I believed all grownups had their shit together, that's why they're grown ups. That slowly shifted to a realization that grownups are just people who are older, but many are still winging it or trying their best, even the ones that seem the most put together to me.
I really liked this post tbh.
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Originally Posted by Tambohamilton
I think that having your sh1t together is just when you feel content with your life. So it'll vary from person to person, depending on what you prioritise or value etc.
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Never thought of it that way, but it's a really good perspective to have (and it also made me realize a part of me has changed for the worst over the years without realizing it)