You can use Bimmercode to partially enable Anti Dazzle and VLD. I don't think the functionality in Bimmercode compares to all the entries and parameters an experienced coder performs though.
What is your issue with remote coding? I'm sure there are plenty of shops in NYC. I would also ask the dealer if they can code this now that it's legal. My fear going that route is they are going to charge you a lot and I doubt they know what they are doing.
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