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Originally Posted by cmyx6go
I was not saying you were reckless, just trying to rationalize.
I agree with what NYAlpine said. Death is a tough subject for her but I honestly don't get what she thinks you should think or feel. Try and talk it out with her. She's traumatized over losing someone she loved but I don't get her being upset with you because you don't stress over dying. You got me  I hope it works out. |
Thanks. Maybe she thinks that if I'm afraid of death it means i'm afraid of losing her??
I just don't want to worry about things that are out of my control. Being afraid of death isn't going to magically make it stay away.
Don't get me wrong, when the time comes, I'm going to feel some anxiety/fear (I've had a couple of close calls), but I'm not going to worry about it in a daily basis.
To me, love and death are separate. She thinks my thoughts on one subject are not inline with hers and it's causing a lot of tension. She even told me she was leaving. I don't understand.