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Originally Posted by someguywithanm3
Thanks. Maybe she thinks that if I'm afraid of death it means i'm afraid of losing her??
I just don't want to worry about things that are out of my control. Being afraid of death isn't going to magically make it stay away.
Don't get me wrong, when the time comes, I'm going to feel some anxiety/fear (I've had a couple of close calls), but I'm not going to worry about it in a daily basis.
To me, love and death are separate. She thinks my thoughts on one subject are not inline with hers and it's causing a lot of tension. She even told me she was leaving. I don't understand.
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Originally Posted by Turkish Pickle
Next time the topic comes up, maybe reframe it in a way that goes "I'm not preoccupied with the thought of death, but I make sure to cherish every moment because you never know what'll happen even in a few hours"?
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I agree with Pickle on this.