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Originally Posted by premier3is
Thanks for the positive feedback... needed that pick up! Not too sure how I showed desperation on my end from texting, I guess I'll have to think it through. Is asking for a second date a week after we met considered desperation? Thought that should be normal.
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I don't think it is being desperation on your part. But I learned very quickly that women had changed a lot between when I was a teenager and then a single adult.
They are more straightforward and upfront...well most are.
What I always did when I had a date, was I never contacted the person back. If she initiated contact with me and I wanted to continue....then we would do whatever.
But if they are interested...they will get back to you. Or they could even be testing you. And if they were testing me I didn't want anything to do with that either...so problem solved.
I guess we didn't have a lot of single guys in my area as I remember being texted back by girls less than an hour after coming off a date with them.