Need help: Throwing Bachelor Party

xtac · 03-27-2009, 11:31 AM

Throwing a bachelor party for my older sibling. Never been to one/booked one before.

Want to do it week of may 15th.

Thinking either Miami, vegas, or just nyc since its close

ideas? suggestions? recommendations? been to one before?

Tondtar · 03-27-2009, 11:49 AM

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Originally Posted by damadama

get some hookers/strippers, bottle service at a club, an 8 ball and a limo

Vegas

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ruffstik · 03-27-2009, 11:52 AM

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Originally Posted by damadama

get some hookers/strippers, bottle service at a club, an 8 ball and a limo

+1 and Vegas baby!

xtac · 03-27-2009, 12:10 PM

I've only been to vegas once before, I see a lot of peopel handing out these escort cards, but how much does this shit cost?

just4kickz · 03-27-2009, 12:14 PM

booze and boobs

Jet335i · 03-27-2009, 12:20 PM

"that's how you get pinkeye!"

+2 on vegas....hope my girl doesn't freak out on me when i tell her i'm going there for my day

Kensta335 · 03-27-2009, 12:32 PM

Vegas would be fun but not everyone is going to be down. No one wants to pay for air fair / hotel. I say get a hotel room and get a few strippers.

Jet335i · 03-27-2009, 12:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Kensta335

Vegas would be fun but not everyone is going to be down. No one wants to pay for air fair / hotel. I say get a hotel room and get a few strippers.

if they don't want to swing it, they don't deserve to be invited.

Couch · 03-27-2009, 12:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Jet335i

if they don't want to swing it, they don't deserve to be invited.

Now that's a huge crock of shit. Most of the bachelor party consists of members of the wedding party (ie - best friends and closest family members).

Because some may not be able to afford or willing to fly to a bachelor party across the country they don't deserve to be invited? Not everyone can take off work either. That's just flat out rude.

xtac · 03-27-2009, 12:49 PM

This is true, I guess its local NYC

Tondtar · 03-27-2009, 01:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Couch

Now that's a huge crock of shit. Most of the bachelor party consists of members of the wedding party (ie - best friends and closest family members).

Because some may not be able to afford or willing to fly to a bachelor party across the country they don't deserve to be invited? Not everyone can take off work either. That's just flat out rude.

Simple solution = Move the wedding to Vegas. Have it at a $99 special chapels. Pay for the travel and accommodation costs of your bachelor party guests + extras (strippers/ hookers/ booze/ limo/ etc.) ..and still save some $$$ probably

Blake · 03-27-2009, 01:09 PM

hookers and blow

Jet335i · 03-27-2009, 01:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Couch

Now that's a huge crock of shit. Most of the bachelor party consists of members of the wedding party (ie - best friends and closest family members).

Because some may not be able to afford or willing to fly to a bachelor party across the country they don't deserve to be invited? Not everyone can take off work either. That's just flat out rude.

i don't know why but i laughed hysterically when reading your response. In most cases I'd say you're right, but my friends' heads would roll if they said they weren't coming with me to vegas!

Couch · 03-27-2009, 01:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Jet335i

i don't know why but i laughed hysterically when reading your response. In most cases I'd say you're right, but my friends' heads would roll if they said they weren't coming with me to vegas!

Yea I kinda thought about that.

I wouldn't be able to afford to take time off let alone the cost of flying somewhere for a bachelor party if my friend had the idea. Just last weekend my friend said when he gets married he'd like to have his bachelor party in vegas. I told him he better be prepared to pay for everyones plane ticket, at the very least, because none of his friends (groomsman) will be willing to foot the bill.

That's not to say I would never not go. At this point in my life I'm saving as much as I can, and allow for one big trip a year, if that.

A friend of mine flew to vegas for a friends bachelor party. She said it was the biggest mistake ever. They never felt appreciation for coming. Apparently instead of it being a big group party it ended up being a bunch of small groups doing their own thing and drama occured (as expected). And she was the maid of honor.

Jet335i · 03-27-2009, 02:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Couch

Yea I kinda thought about that.

I wouldn't be able to afford to take time off let alone the cost of flying somewhere for a bachelor party if my friend had the idea. Just last weekend my friend said when he gets married he'd like to have his bachelor party in vegas. I told him he better be prepared to pay for everyones plane ticket, at the very least, because none of his friends (groomsman) will be willing to foot the bill.

That's not to say I would never not go. At this point in my life I'm saving as much as I can, and allow for one big trip a year, if that.

A friend of mine flew to vegas for a friends bachelor party. She said it was the biggest mistake ever. They never felt appreciation for coming. Apparently instead of it being a big group party it ended up being a bunch of small groups doing their own thing and drama occured (as expected). And she was the maid of honor.

Sounds familiar enough - although if I were to do vegas, I'd go for like a 3 day weekend, nothing too crazy like a mid-week thing to accomodate people's work.

I'm sure that has the potential to happen. I think vegas would be ideal for a small group of people say 4-5 at the most. Anything bigger than that and it could get messy.

xtac · 03-27-2009, 02:50 PM

i think im just get him 2 blonde dikes who do dig guys 2

khuuster · 03-27-2009, 04:51 PM

VEGAS ftw!

ybbiz34 · 03-27-2009, 04:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Blake

hookers and blow

Well said.

NewSong · 03-27-2009, 04:54 PM

Why not just get a cake, go to a good restaurant and have some wholesome fun?

jhv · 03-27-2009, 04:59 PM

bewbs, vagoo, alcohol, cigarettes, alcohol, alcohol, vagoo

Bulldog 6 · 03-27-2009, 05:33 PM

Vegas is cheap as hell right now...just booked a 5 day 4 night (MGM) with round trip from Richmond, VA for $515

blue-coupe · 03-27-2009, 07:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Jet335i

if they don't want to swing it, they don't deserve to be invited.

retarded.

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